Letter To The Father Of My Children: You Are Missing The Best In Life
You are missing the best in life. You are letting everything worthwhile go by. The magic of his childhood runs like sand through your fingers. The best moments that a human being can experience and share, the most memorable anecdotes, go away and will never come back.
I’m sorry for the way you let the freshness and innocence of your childhood pass you by. I feel sorry when I see the love and joy that you waste with every second that you avoid the most beautiful thing that life has been able to give us.
I understand the emptiness in your gaze, because I appreciate without any difficulty what is missing in your heart. Unable to fulfill your obligation as a father, you dedicated nights to bad life and days to recover, when the truth of the universe was within your home. You are definitely missing everything.
You’re missing too much
I looked ahead, as always, as life taught me by force of blows. By and for them, my little angels. I pretended not to think about what really happened every day after our forced separation by the pain you caused, and the bad example you set . Immature, you are so green that you cannot appreciate the treasure that you have in your hands since the day they came into our life.
You should be quite a man, a gentleman that the kids can admire and idolize. A role model, a responsible figure always present and available to them. You failed, and yet they love you with their whole soul, they think of you and wait for you in vain.
Around here the days passed loaded with a pure, deep, unconditional love. Tinted with color, set to music by their beautiful and sweet voices. Between games, songs, lullabies and the most hilarious children’s occurrences, the hours flew by, writing unforgettable follies in our anecdote.
I don’t blame you, I feel sorry
I don’t blame you, I don’t hate you either, because I can only experience pity and sadness. Of course, I wish things were different, especially since you are missing the best in life. But I’ve already let you go.
Time has no turning back. He keeps trying to gulp down all the time you wasted, while I enjoy every second by his side. Go to bed with whoever you want every night, I have the fortune to sleep hugging my miniature relics.
Keep dealing with the hangover and specializing in night art, which I teach my children to be artists, doctors and whatever they want and dream of. You can boast of dating many people, I will be proud to nurture a love that will last a lifetime.
Continue as usual, making excuses while I create memories. You are amazed at the things the children learned and their growth and intelligence. On the contrary, it is not unknown to me at all.
It is that I have been in charge of teaching him and transmitting values. Something that I even know if you know or can do. I’m sorry that you are surprised by the displays of affection, affection and protection between them. It does not ruffle me, I know how sweet and companions they can be. My strength in so much weakness. Loving just as I love them.
You are missing the most beautiful thing about parenthood
While living selfishly and narcissistic, you are missing out on the beauty of parenthood. A role that is certainly too big for you. Because being a dad is not just a biological function, but it works every day.
You don’t know what they want and are passionate about, you don’t know their dreams and fears. Their achievements and failures, what frustrates them and their difficulties. You also don’t know his favorite foods, songs, books, and games.
Nor what are the activities that they learned and that make them shine even more. You will surely also miss training sessions and competitions. But I will have the peace of mind of being the person they lean on, the look they look for from the stands to know that everything will be fine.
I’m not mad at you because I understand that you never had the ability to change the chip. However, you are missing everything, while I enjoy every second next to my precious children.
